| Location | Wolverhampton |
| Age | 18 years |
| Date of Birth | 12/1987 |
| Date of Death | 6/2006 |
| Visitors | 1,519 since 09/09/2007 |
| Creator |
this is dedicated to the death of my beautiful little girl , lisa she was 18 when she decided to take her life . She was being bullied and had enough and decided to take her own life . both her sistersand her brother miss her dearly, and her twin neices too.
mum and dad miss u dearly and every one else does too . i hope ur safe darling xx
I saw you today
Not with my eyes, with my mind.
I hugged you today
Not with my arms, with my heart.
I heard you whisper 'Mum'
Not in my ears, through the wind.
My ears heard the thunder crack.
My heart feels the impact.
My mind understands
Why you decided to go.
My heart refuses
To believe it was so.
I saw you today.
Not with my eyes, with my mind.
I hugged you today.
Not with my arms, with my heart.
I told you I love you today.
Not in words...with longing.
Author Unknown
our group has over 70 members and each one of them has lost a loved one to suicide, thinking of you
Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone,
Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone,
Silence the pianos and with muffled drum
Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come.
Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead
Scribbling on the sky the message He is Dead
Put crepe bows round the white necks of the public doves,
Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves.
He was my North, my South, my East and West,
My working week and my Sunday rest,
My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;
I thought that love would last forever: I was wrong.
The stars are not wanted now; put out every one,
Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun,
Pour away the ocean and sweep up the woods;
For nothing now can ever come to any good.
NATIONAL SUICIDE AWARENESS DAY 16th April 2008
thinking of you
They said there was no reason,
they said that time would heal.
But neither time nor reason,
will change the way I feel.
For no one knows the heartache,
that lies beyond my smile.
No one knows how many times,
I have broken down and cried.
I want to tell you something
so there won't be any doubt,
your'e so wonderful to think off,
but so hard to live without.
my heart goes out to all of lisas family especially her mum and dad, i lost my daughter jennifer to suicide and know the hurt and pain you are going through, all the if onlys and what ifs and whys, but you will have so many good memories of lisa cherish them, they are yours and no one can ever take them away from you, i wish you didnt have to go through all the hurt take care and god bless pauline x
my thoughts are with u i too lost my husband due to suicide nov 06 aged 29 leavin myself and our 3 sons behind. im sure lisa will be sendin heavenly love down to u and she will send u strength to get thru this tragedy sleep tite sweet angel lisa xxxxx
thinking of you so much
My heart goes out to you...I lost my son by him taking his own life last year and I know the heartbreak you will be feeling its terrible. May I invite you to our group for those that have lost their loved ones to suicide...if you look on the links page here on GTS you will see it...I am sure you will find support and comfort there, love sheila
The Elephant In The Room
By Terry Kettering
There's and elephant in the room.
It is large and squatting, so it is hard to get around it.
Yet we squeeze by with 'How are you?' and 'I'm fine…
And a thousand other forms of trivial chatter.
We talk about the weather.
We talk about work.
We talk about everything else…
Except the elephant in the room.
We all know it is there.
We are thinking about the elephant as we talk together.
It is constantly on our minds.
For, you see, it is a very big elephant.
It has hurt us all.
But we do not talk about the elephant in the room.
Oh, please, say her name.
Oh, please, say 'Lisa' again
Oh, please, let's talk about the elephant in the room.
For if we talk about her death,
Perhaps we can talk about her life.
Can I say 'Lisa' to you and not have you look away
For if I cannot,
then you are leaving me alone…
in a room…
with an elephant.
another young angel gone too soon, my thoughts go out to you her parents, hoping lisa will walk with you to help you through the most difficult times. will the bullies ever learn just what this can do to a person. i'm sure that lisa as found peace, happiness and many friends up in the big garden , up there they dont have badness and bullies, just our angels. love to you lisas mum, dad and family. xxxxxxxx
so sorry
Reflection
Another day for you to wonder, another day for you to mourn
It wasn't my intention to go before the coming dawn
My pain was deep within my heart and troubled head
It wasn't my intention to go without words said.
My frame of mind seemed normal, or so I heard them say
It wasn't my intention not to see another day
I did not mean to make you suffer or cause you so much pain
It wasn't my intention to never see you again.
Despair and confusion left my aching mind unsure
It wasn't my intention to suddenly close life's door
If only I could give you reasons and brush the tears away
It wasn't my intention to leave you and not stay.
I did not mean for you to grieve, now left alone to cry
It wasn't my intention to leave you, forever asking why
As the burdens of life's worries slowly ebb from my heart
it wasn't my intention to tear your soul apart.
So sorry my brother steven took his own life last november and we are still shell shocked it has been the hardest 10 months of our lives, its a selfish way to go, but its the un answered questions that hurt the most, the if onlys, but we must understand they where hurting and nobody could help. they are now at peace no one will hurt them again. best wishes janine(steven horsfields sister) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
so sad
It is so sad too see another young life cut so short because of bullies.
Sleep well Lisa they cannot hurt u now , x x
I'm so sorry for your loss
Dear Lisa's family
my heart breaks for you all in your loss
no words can ever comfort you as each day you miss your
Lisa more and more
please know that I share in the pain of losing a child
with love Jacob's Mum www.caringbridge.org/me/jacob
Our Aussie Angel 17/06/1991-16/06/2005
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